The Secret Attraction Factor

I am sure many of you reading this article will be aware of the DVD, “The Secret”, and the subsequent workshops, and courses on the attraction factor. This article will reveal the true secret observed from the few who are successful as opposed to the many who aren’t. Why do some obtain extraordinary results, while others fail time and time again despite strong intention and belief?

It is early October, and I have been looking back at the last month. In my principle MLM we had a special bonus where leaders could earn an extra $250 just by meeting certain goals. Five people out of 1,000 reached the target and will get a substantial commission cheque in a few weeks. The rest will be thinking it is too hard, or have given up, or simply don’t believe they are lucky like these few individuals.

I am not stupid enough to think that others didn’t put in effort to get this target. I am sure they did. So why didn’t more succeed? It is the same over and over again. When you understand the “secret” and apply it over and over again, you will never have to worry about where your next meal or overseas trip will come from. Once you switch your thinking to abundance, your life will be permanently transformed.

When seeking abundance there are a couple of rules. If you haven’t read “The Science of Getting Rich” by Wallace D Wattles, I suggest you get a copy and read it cover to cover. Gratitude is really important to success. Every one of these people who made the target feels grateful. As a result they receive help from the universe and other people.

They remained focused. In Stephen Covey’s words, they “Begin with the End in Mind”. They know what they have to attain to achieve the reward. They don’t quit because it looks like they won’t make it. They persevere until the last minute. At this stage if they are close, they do what it takes to get over the line. Most of these individuals didn’t look like making it until near the deadline. Those who didn’t make it probably saw they weren’t getting there and quit, so they will never know if they could get there or not! When you make an agreement with yourself to do what it takes, providence steps in and lends a helping hand. I have seen this time and time again over many years in my life.

One individual made a mistake and nearly failed at the 11^th hour. I, and my support team stepped in and sorted out the problem for her. There are many others I haven’t done this for. Why? Well, they simply don’t show the right qualities of successful people. Those with the right attitude receive extra help from many sources.

I am not sure whether those of you reading this article get it yet? In China, there is a huge compound in Beijing. This is where the top party officials live in opulent luxury, while the 1.2 billion others struggle. The Chinese outside of the elite group are not even aware of this other life. It is the same with those who are successful. They constantly practice and reap the rewards of abundance thinking – the attraction factor if you like – while the rest of the world wonder whether this is true or just a scam designed to divest them of their money. You can’t see abundance thinking producing until you cross the line, think like successful people do, and do what successful people do. There is no shortcut. It takes tenacity, discipline, and I would say bloody mindedness.

Anyone can do this, but few will. Most of us are so caught up feeling sorry for ourselves because of past experiences, we can’t forgive ourselves for abandoning our birthright. Every time we refuse to keep focused on achievements, usually to avoid perceived disappointment, we take a little of our attraction power away. Every time we move beyond our old conditioning, we build our attraction power. Ask a question. Are you more attracted to someone who constantly achieves their goals in life, with minimum effort, or someone who puts in lots of effort and constantly fails? You see, once you cross the line and start attracting what is important to you, others will want to come with you and this is what results in abundance for all.

One final thing. Focus on helping others move to attraction thinking. The more people you help make the shift, the more abundance you create for both of you. In Network Marketing, my preferred method of supporting my family, I find that those few individuals who listen and learn and ensure they reach their goals month after month no matter how it looks along the way, make all the difference. Now I look to taking one or two people at a time by the hand, and working to get their mindsets in the right place. I know most won’t make it, but could you be the one who does? Imagine your life 5 years from now if you do, or don’t take action on this.

The True Secret Revealed.

Everytime you follow through on your action plan you send a powerful message to the Universe. If you don’t get the desired result, you regroup and go again. When defeat is not an option, results change as you discipline your mind. As you start achieving desired results, they become easier, and then you can create larger wins in your life. You become a person others are drawn to and then your life becomes abundant in every way. It is who you are and how you think that determines your altitude in life. Once you make the switch, you simply work with others and help them change and there is no limit to what can be done.

John Gaydon helps others achieve freedom from the world of “tick tock” through Network and Internet Marketing combined with mindset training. He freely gives his time to deserving individuals who are prepared to do “what it takes” to change their circumstances. John Can be contacted at john@pems.com.au